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I don't owe the evangelical god any kind of relationship or worship because his logic doesn't make sense. My priest taught me that it is foolish to believe that God created 99% of mankind just to damn them, and I don't owe any god belief in something foolish.
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This is a bit of a misrepresentation of the Reformed tradition, since it's really characterized by a long debate between Calvinist and Arminian soteriology, and you will find Evangelicals on either side of the question. They can get pretty extreme on both sides, so it's not like one is more hardcore than the other.
But yeah, I find Calvinism disturbing, but also too arbitrary to really take seriously.